User talk:Jay arr

stigma-the biggest obstacle to recovery
For untold generations through the natural process of social enculturation, today's alcoholics are burdened by the social stigma placed on those afflicted. Thus, the purpose and need for anonymity at the public level-especially in the nascent period of AA was apparent.. The public through this process was taught from early chidhood that "drunks" are anathema; socially unacceptable. When those of us who later contracted the disease of alcoholism, we instinctively began a process of shame and self-loathing .A normal reflex taught from childhood. AA's Eleventh Tradition is very specific about the extent of personal anonymity at the public level, but many seeking rehabilitation through AA misinterpret it as a necessary means to 'dive into the closet' of invisibility. This is counter-productive to developing an attitude of gratitude at the public level for being in recovery. Through the years (25 plus sober) I have gradually shed all pretense of my anonymity to one and all, except within the parameters of T-11. Now, I look for every opportunity in daily social intercourse to reveal my membership in AA and invite people to our open meetings. I am truly happy, joyous, and free--and totally relieved of the stigma of alcoholism forever.